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Bucharest Cocktail Party Icebreakers: What 25 Strangers Said About Their First Car

“What was your first car?”

That was one of the icebreakers at our March 3rd Space Bucharest cocktail party.

The answers were incredible.

The stories

One person wrecked their car three times in one hour.

Another crashed their first car while playing Pokémon Go.

Someone else drove their first car into a lake. With themselves still inside.

There was a Dacia 1301. An old Mercedes. A company-car Škoda Kodiaq. A beat-up Volkswagen Golf.

And one guest who saved for a long time to buy their first car — and when it got its first scratch…

They cried.

Eric Melchor taking a selfie with guests at a 3rd Space Bucharest cocktail party
Eric Melchor taking a selfie with guests at a 3rd Space Bucharest cocktail party
Guests talking over drinks under wicker lamps at a 3rd Space Bucharest cocktail party
Guests talking over drinks under wicker lamps at a 3rd Space Bucharest cocktail party

Why a silly question works better than a business card

This is what happens when 25 people get in a room with no pressure to perform.

No pitches. No awkward networking. No “So, what do you do?” interrogation loops.

Just curiosity. Stories. And people actually listening to each other.

A question like “what was your first car?” sounds random. That's the point. It skips past job titles and lands somewhere human — a memory, a mistake, a small embarrassing moment you'd never bring up at a conference.

A small group deep in conversation at a Bucharest cocktail party
A small group deep in conversation at a Bucharest cocktail party

Thank you to Andra Ghibuțiu, Carmen Dima, Anca Constantin, Richard Peers and everyone else who made the night special.

This is why I host 3rd Space Bucharest parties every month for creatives, entrepreneurs and expats in Bucharest.

Real conversation beats forced networking. Every time.

Smiling guests in a group selfie at a 3rd Space Bucharest event
Smiling guests in a group selfie at a 3rd Space Bucharest event

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